Better Well-Being

Women may not easily recognize that emotion in these pages. These are not conventional valentines. His secret garden is not like mine. A contemporary confusion is that if the sexes are equal, it must mean they are identical; men often predicted I’d find their fantasies similar to women’s. We may seek the same goal in fantasy sexual excitement but men and women get there by different paths. A fantasy is a map of desire, mastery, escape, and obscuration; the navigational path we invent to steer

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The Masculine Conflict